I just finished reading the blog posts I wrote last January for my Tumblr, which promptly went dormant come February. It’s been really interesting to see what my aspirations were and how I have changed even in those few posts from a year ago. And not just from last year but in many previous years. I seem to have a habit of wanting to write more, starting a blog, and then forgetting about it or deleting it when I don’t feel comfortable or happy with what I’ve written. I will be the first to admit I am my own worst critic. I’m working on that!
I still have access to one of my old LiveJournals I kept from 1999-2005. I can’t believe the Internet even had such a thing as LiveJournal (basically an early form of blogging/digital diaries) in 1999. It seems so long ago, and in such an ancient age (B.F. – Before Facebook) of the Internet. What I appreciate about what blogging has become is that it isn’t all just people’s daily comings and goings. It is so nice to be able to share information in a setting that can be tailored to each individuals own interests. Not to mention the capacity to integrate a multitude of other media and link easily to other social networking platforms.
Social networking is something I have come to have a very love/hate relationship with. I also remember, like LiveJournal, my first semester at SFSU back in 2005 when someone I had met on my floor in the dorms said “Have you heard of Facebook? It’s like MySpace but you have to be in college with a college email to use it. Sign up!” And my how far we have come since then. Sure, it’s nice to be able to connect with family and friends I don’t live close to, but am I the only one that feels obligated to “Friend” every “friend” that I went to high school with? I actually recently deleted my Facebook for an indefinite amount of time to see just how much it affects the way I will be able to interact with the people I consider close friends and family.
Here is an article, 7 Ways to be Insufferable on Facebook, that makes me laugh but also has some truths to the way social networking is manipulated by some people.
I, personally, happen to like Twitter a lot more. I have a more secluded group of friends who share similar interests and it’s given me access to communicate with different companies and public personalities in a personal way. I get real time updates from San Francisco Municipal Transit Agency about bus route delays and funny quips from my favorite comedians all in one feed! As I approach my professional career I’ve started wondering if maybe I need to create two separate accounts. I don’t post anything I would be embarassed by but I am definitely more no-holds-barred. I can be a witty cynic at times, but still have insightful and thoughtful things to say in 140 characters! Something to consider more seriously in the coming weeks, I suppose.
Regardless, there is no arguing that social networking has major advantages to the way our modern lives are run. It’s that tricky fine line between how we use it and how self-aware we are of what we are saying that can make or break what we get out of it.